'[Do you] have one with more storage?': 23-year-old immediately regrets giving her old iPad to her friend's 12-year-old sister after getting accosted for upgrades without as much as a ‘thank you’

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Jesse Kessenheimer • Writer and Editor
May 15, 2025 3:00 PM EDT

Having an iPad used to be the ultimate sign of frivolity and wealth. It had some of the capabilities of a phone and some of the capabilities of a computer, but was ultimately rather useless unless you really liked playing Candy Crush on the big screen. Nowadays, iPads can do a lot more, and the apps have gotten better, but the entitlement surrounding the world's most expensive pad of paper remains. 

This woman wasn't using her iPad anymore and decided that she could pass it along to a friend's little sister as a gift. However, the gift immediately turned sour when the ungrateful 12-year-old started making demands on her ultimate displeasure with her sister's friend's generosity. Perhaps she didn't deserve the gift after all, because a free $1000 screen wasn't enough for her…

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  • When an adult sees promising potential in a youngster, it's hard to resist bolstering their talents with a lavish gift. Personally, I find great pleasure in encouraging kids to pursue their passion, but there's a point where bending over backwards and giving a kid everything they want becomes enabling.  And in this case, generosity was enabling the growth of entitlement, not digital drawing skills. 

  • Offered my old iPad to a friend's little sister, instant regret.
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  • So I (23F) had an old iPad Mini 4 sitting in a drawer. It's a bit slow, but still works fine for YouTube, ebooks and stuff so I figured I'd be nice and offer it to my friend's
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  • little sister (she's 12 and loves to draw), thinking she'd appreciate it. Well, big mistake.
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  • My friend calls me back a few hours later and after exchanging pleasantries she said she was happy I gave her lil sis the iPad but wanted to know if I had one with more storage. 32GB
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  • according to her isn't enough for her sister's apps. I was surprised but said no, that that's all I had. Then she says she was hoping for one with an apple
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  • pencil too and asked if there's any chance I had a newer one. I was like, No I'm giving it to her for free. I even reset it, cleaned the screen, bought a new case
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  • for it. I told her she could use a cheap stylus from Amazon or something if she wanted to draw, but apparently that's not the same according to her.
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  • They ended up not sending it back because it wasn't what she wanted. I felt really bad because I was only trying to help. I regret it fr
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  • jojolitos Now THIS is a choosing beggar! People can be so shameless
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  • birdonthewire76 • Wow. Whatever happened to 'thank you. Don't feel bad, you did a lovely thing. Your friend is a j.
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  • stephenc01 It always happens to me with tech equipment, I turn into support or want something better. I donate it on local sites now
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  • CAgirl17. I wouldn't beat yourself up. You did a nice thing for someone, and they were unappreciative. I've been in the same boat. Just take note, and chalk it up to a learning lesson. Don't give them anything in the future.
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  • SudOF1nch Take it back under the guise of "upgrades" and then just, forget, forever. F em.
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  • Starbu People are gross and disgustingly ungrateful. Not quite the same thing, but just as upsetting to me, years ago when a friend of mine was struggling a bit with major life
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  • changes, she would make comments like she wishes she could buy a new purse or had as many as I did. I didn't have a lot of very expensive ones, but they were cute and I changed them
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  • often. Well, not long after I decided I didn't need so many so I gave her maybe five or six I didn't use so often. She seemed thrilled and I was happy to give them to her. And a few days later...it was
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  • brought to my attention through another mutual friend that they were up on eBay for sale. That was never my intention to give them to her to sell and profit off of. I
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  • wanted her to use them herself. I know that once you give something to someone you have no say in what they do with it, but like that was profoundly messed up in my opinion. Never again...
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